[Guides](https://defrostmail.com/blog) # When referrals aren’t enough: six options and what each costs Updated November 9, 2026 When referrals aren’t enough, or come in busy months and quiet months, a small service firm has six real options: ask for referrals on purpose, write and speak, hire a salesperson, hire an agency, run sales email software yourself, or use a service that is paid per result. Each one costs your time, your money or both. They differ most in who pays when nothing comes of it. ## Why do referrals come unevenly? For two reasons. The first is that a referral runs on someone else’s timing. It arrives when a person you know meets a person with a need, and you have no say in when that is. The second is your own calendar. Looking for clients takes hours, and the months when you have those hours are the months when you have too little work. When you’re busy, you stop looking. Then the work ends and nothing is waiting behind it. Most of what you do to find a client takes a while to turn into one, so the quiet month was set up during the busy one. None of this makes referrals a weak source. They are the main one for most service firms, and the surveys are in [How B2B service firms get clients: what the surveys found](https://defrostmail.com/blog/how-service-firms-get-clients). ## What are the six options? | Option | What it costs | What to know | | Ask for referrals on purpose | Your time. No fee. | It makes more of the source you already have. The timing is still someone else’s. | | Write and speak | Your time, most weeks, for months | It brings people to you, slowly. | | Hire a salesperson | Median pay of $80,000 a year at target, before benefits, tools and management | Pay starts on day one. The average rep takes 3.0 months to get up to speed and stays 1.9 years. | | Hire an agency | Published prices run from CIENCE’s $2,000 a month, before its per-rep fees, to SalesRoads’ $11,950 per four weeks for one rep | You pay for the team’s effort, whatever comes of it. | | Run sales email software yourself | A subscription, and your own hours | You choose who to write to, write the emails and answer the replies. | | A service paid per result | Nothing until the result happens. With Defrost, $300 when a new company replies wanting to talk. | You don’t decide how much is sent. | The salesperson figures are from The Bridge Group’s 2025 report on 351 B2B companies. Agency prices are from the agencies’ own pricing pages, read on November 9, 2026. Links are under Sources. ## What can you do yourself? - **Ask for referrals on purpose.** Tell past clients exactly who you can help, and ask when a job has gone well. Go back to clients you haven’t worked with for a while: in a 2025 survey of content agencies, lapsed clients came out at 7% among sources of new business. None of this changes the timing. - **Write and speak.** Articles, talks, a newsletter: anything that lets a stranger see how you think. In the same survey, marketing that brings inquiries in came out at 13%. Expect it to take hours most weeks, and months before it brings anyone. - **Run sales email software yourself.** You pay a subscription and do the work: choose the companies, find the right person, write, send, follow up and answer. What it takes is hours, and they come due in the same busy months. If you go this way, start with [how to write to a company you have never met](https://defrostmail.com/blog/how-to-write-to-a-company-you-have-never-met). ## What can you pay someone else to do? - **Hire a salesperson.** The median US sales development rep is paid $80,000 a year at target, $55,000 of it base. Benefits, tools and management come on top, and in a small firm the manager is you. More in [What it costs to hire a salesperson to find new clients](https://defrostmail.com/blog/cost-of-hiring-a-salesperson). - **Hire an agency.** You pay a monthly fee and the agency’s people research, call and email for you. The invoice arrives whether or not anyone answered. Some providers charge per meeting instead. See [what a lead generation agency costs](https://defrostmail.com/blog/what-a-lead-generation-agency-costs) and [how pay-per-meeting works](https://defrostmail.com/blog/pay-per-meeting-lead-generation). - **Use a service paid per result.** You pay only when a defined result happens. Defrost works this way. We find companies that fit and write an email in your name, and you approve every email before it goes. Your part is a few minutes, a few days a week. The only fee is $300 when a new company replies wanting to talk. A reply is not a sale: winning the client is up to you. [Here is exactly what counts](https://defrostmail.com/pricing). ## Which one fits your firm? - If you have more time than money, start with the two that cost only hours: ask for referrals on purpose, and write or speak where your clients will see it. - If you want a team making calls into a large market every day, and you can judge their work, an agency retainer buys that. - If you have steady work for a full-time person and someone to manage them, hire. - If you have neither spare hours nor money you want to spend before anything comes of it, look at a service paid per result. These don’t exclude each other. [How lead generation is priced](https://defrostmail.com/blog/how-lead-generation-is-priced) sets the paid options side by side. ## Questions people ask ### Should I stop relying on referrals? No. Referrals are the main source of new clients for most service firms, and faster-growing firms keep them. In Hinge’s 2026 breakout of consulting firms, high-growth firms still got 37.7% of their business from referrals, against almost half for firms with no growth. Hinge’s reading is that their other sources produced more. ### Which option costs the least? In money, asking for referrals on purpose and writing or speaking, since neither has a fee. In hours, those two cost the most, because the hours are yours. A service paid per result has no cost until a result arrives, and then a set fee for each one. ## Sources - [Hinge, consulting marketing strategy: five data-backed lessons](https://hingemarketing.com/blog/story/consulting-marketing-strategy-5-data-backed-lessons), February 4, 2026, read November 9, 2026. - [Content Marketing Association, Pulse](https://the-cma.com/pulse), read November 9, 2026. - [The Bridge Group, 2025 SDR Models, Metrics and Compensation report](https://www.bridgegroupinc.com/research/2025-sdr-models-metrics-report-the-bridge-group), read November 9, 2026. - [The Bridge Group, SDR tenure and ramp time](https://www.bridgegroupinc.com/research/sdr-tenure-and-ramp-time), read November 9, 2026. - [SalesRoads pricing](https://salesroads.com/pricing/), read November 9, 2026. - [CIENCE pricing](https://www.cience.com/pricing), read November 9, 2026. ## Short on time for this? Tell us what you do. It takes about three minutes and no card. 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